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If ya ain't creatin... you must be hatin...

Yo... I got a lot of feed back on the UNGRATEFUL B's thing. I appreciate the love and the hate, lol.

To clear the air, NO, those are not personal problems. I hear brothers saying they wish they could say certain things to their significant others. So, I picked up the megaphone for them and ME.

Here's the thing ladies. We LOVE yall. You help us grow. You support us. You bear children for us.

Still, at times, you get on our nerves... to the point where a joker will wish they didn't have home training just so they wouldn't feel bad about knockin you the fuck out. And, unfortunately many men do.

Well OSOK and his circle ain't beat for that. I grew watching my mother get abused and beaten as if she was a man. That shit stopped when I was around 15 when I took a pipe to his ass and my brother followed up a few days later with a size 32 wooden Louisville Slugger!

I used to ask myself 'why' because I didn't understand how he could do that, or how my father did it before him. Seventeen years, two children and a divorce later I can empathize with the situation to an extent.

There's always that flip side. Instead of helping you hinder at times. You push a joker to a point where he feels his only way to show his power is to use force. Now, OSOK is way to witty and slick for that, but everybody ain't OSOK. It's brothers out here doing their best and getting treated like shit when they come home. The last thing we want to hear at home is how messed up we are. You think we don't already know that shit? Your role is to make him better. You will never be successful at that if all you do is remind him of his shortcomings.

***MESSAGE***
Learn how to tell your man he ain't shit in the most productive manner. Feel me? Tell him he ain't shit... but at least let him know that shit is used to make fertilizer, ya dig. Trust me. He will ride for you in return.

Now, even though he ain't shit, there's always at least ONE thing he does good. When he does that one thing... make him feel like he is THE SHIT!

To end the ***MESSAGE*** and this post...

Fellas keep in mind that ALL of the above applies to yo ass too! We push them just like they push us, so be mindful of that. If you don't want her to push you to the edge then don't push her. If that ain't enough for you keep this in mind...

You might beat the livin shit out of her. Those wounds heal. When we push them too far... poison, ground up glass in ya mash potatoes, guns and knives usually come into play. They play hard and the end result is usually death or worse... you become the next dude in need of a prosthetic schlong... hahahaha

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